The state of the male sex organ in which it is huge but not actually erect. Usually just before or after erection when it hangs down impressively inflated but not hard. Also known as a "Water Dog."
I'm glad I had a "Big Soft" instead of "shrinkage" when I had to drop my pants for that hot nurse.
ayon kay MartialV ika-04 ng Disyembre, 2007